Handling orgasm in the era of slander

From Abu Umamah Radhiyallahu ‘anhu, Said,

If a boy comes to the Prophet – May God’s prayer and peace be on it – and says: o God’s messenger, then give me adultery! So people accept it and they have been broken down, and they say: He said: God has made me redeem you, he said: or people love him for their daughter. He said: Do you love him for your sister? He said: No, God, God made me redeem you, He said: or people love him for their sisters. He said: No, God, God made me redeem you, he said: or people love him for their aunt. He said: No, God, God made me redeem you. He said: or people love him for his aunt.

“A young man came to the Prophet Sallallaahu ‘Alaihi Wasallam and said,’ O Allah’s messenger, allow me to commit adultery! ‘So the people present approached him and scolded him when he said,’ Enough! ‘

The Prophet said, ‘approaching me.’ So the young man approached him near him.

He asked, ‘Do you like the actions that must be taken for your mother?’

The young man answered, ‘No, by Allah, may Allah make me your ransom.’

He said, ‘And even people don’t like it for their mother.’

He asked again, ‘Do you like the actions that must be taken on your putrim?’

The young man answered, ‘No, By Allah, O Messenger of Allah, may Allah make me your ransom.’

He said, ‘And people do not like it to do with their daughters.’

He asked again. ‘Do you like the actions taken for your sister?’

The young man answered, ‘No, by Allah, may Allah make me your ransom.’

He said, ‘And even people do not like to be done to their sister.’

He asked again, ‘Do you like the actions that must be taken for your biibim (from your father)?’

The young man answered, ‘No, by Allah, may Allah make me your ransom.’

He said, ‘and people do not like it to be done with their aunt (from the father’s side).’

He asked again, ‘Do you like the actions that must be taken for your biibim (from mother)?’

The young man answered, ‘No, by Allah, may Allah make me your ransom.’

He said, ‘and people do not like it to be done with their aunt (from the mother’s side).’

Then the Prophet put his hands on the young man when he prayed, ‘O Allah, forgive his sins, purify his heart, and protect his genitals.’

After that, the young man no longer crossed to do the act. ” (HR. Ahmad)

In another history it is said, “And he prayed, ‘O Lord, purify his heart, forgive his sins, and protect his genitals.’ So there’s nothing he hates more than adultery.

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All praises be to Allah Story who have sent the Qur’an as a guide for humanity, and as well as greetings, hopefully it will be poured out to the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, the best role model in all aspects of life. Science is the light that illuminates the path to heaven. Without knowledge, a Muslim will get lost in the dark of the temptation of the world. Therefore, patience in studying is a necessity, even when physical conditions do not support, such as hot or tired weather that whack.

So, how to face the encouragement of lust that is so strong, especially in an era full of slander and massive openness of genitalia? The slander of lust has slipped into everyone’s grasp, even small children, through social media and the internet.

Patience in pursuing knowledge is very important, because behind patience there is knowledge that saves from moral destruction. The story above contains many extraordinary wisdom from the life of the Prophet ﷺ, which is about a young man who came and openly asked permission to commit adultery. This story contains important lessons in dealing with lust and educating young people in this era of crime.

The courage of the youth and the wisdom of the Prophet 1

Let’s reflect on the hadith at the beginning of the introduction above, where a young man came directly to the Prophet ﷺ and said innocently, “Let me be adultery.” A surprising statement, making the friends present immediately react loudly. They want to stop the young man in a firm way. However, look at how the Prophet ﷺ, the leader of the people who were full of wisdom, did not necessarily snap or drive him out, but instead said, “Get close.”

This is the beginning of an extraordinary approach. Rasulullah ﷺ did not reject that bad intentions with anger, but by opening the dialogue space. He gave an extraordinary example about how to welcome the honesty of a young man who was struggling with his lust. Rasulullah ﷺ Understanding that this is a rare moment – a young man about the turmoil of his lust. So, he chose to guide, not judgment.

This is where educators and parents need to look in the mirror. Often, we actually turn off the honesty of children with anger and punishment. In fact, if a child dares to express his bad intentions, it is a sign of trust and golden opportunity to guide his heart to the right path. The Prophet ﷺ has given an example of the greatness of the soul in dealing with statements that can be considered despicable by the community.

This story shows that the courage of young people does not always have to be faced hard. Conversely, the young man actually found calm and answers that touched the heart of the Prophet ﷺ. So we as his people must emulate this approach in educating and fostering our children who live in this slander.

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Touch logic and heart

Rasulullah ﷺ continued with a series of questions that really touched the young man’s feelings. “Do you like it if it is done to your mother?” The young man replied, “No, by Allah.” A similar question was asked for girls, sister, sister, aunt from the father’s side, and aunt from the mother’s side – everything was answered with a firm rejection.

Through this question, the Prophet ﷺ invited the young man to think from the perspective of empathy. A approach that arouses social feelings and awareness. How many people feel natural to commit adultery, but will be furious if it happens to his family. Herein lies justice: One must hate disobedience not only because it is a sin, but because it is also painful for fellow humans.

Most preaching or education approaches today are trapped in a one -way lecture that only emphasizes the prohibition, without building inner awareness. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ actually built a two-way dialogue, touching the emotional roots of the bad intentions, and slowly turned the young man’s heart with touching love and logic.

This is the method we need to copy in dealing with children, teenagers, or anyone who is being tempted by lust. Don’t berate right away, but invite them to think: what if that happens to your family? So, slowly the hard heart will soften, and lust will submit to reason enlightened by the light of faith.

Prophet’s prayer 1

After making the young man aware emotionally and intellectually, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ closed the moment by putting his hand on the young man’s chest and praying, “O Allah, forgive his sins, suck his heart, and protect his cock.” This meaningful prayer is the closing process of the complete tarbiyah process – from reason, feelings, to the spirit.

This prayer shows that essential changes are not enough just by advice or logic. Human heart belongs to Allah ﷻ. So after all dialogue and explanations, the Prophet ﷺ submitted the results to Allah Story In the form of prayer. And Allah granted that prayer. In a history mentioned, the young man never approached adultery, even things that led to there.

This transformation is so extraordinary and is proof that God’s guidance can come through a gentle and touching approach. There is no screaming, no violence, only affection and prayer. The result: Total changes in the life of a young man who had previously fallen into the turmoil of lust.

For parents, teachers, and educators, this is an important lesson. Do not just focus on the prohibition, but guide with love, pray for sincerely, and never give up hope from a person’s change – because the heart can change in an instant if God wants.

Defamation of this era

If the temptation of adultery in the time of the Prophet ﷺ was so tempting, then the temptation today is far more powerful. Social media such as Instagram, Tiktok, and other platforms even make genitals as commodities. Even 8-year-old children can easily access content that is very damaging to the morale. So do not be surprised if the encouragement of lust today is more brutal and massive.

This is where this hadith found its relevance. Today’s young generation requires more patient guidance, more empathic approaches, and more frequent prayers. If the Prophet ﷺ alone guides young people with affection in a smaller temptation condition, then we are more obliged to be gentle facing the slander of lust today.

Parents must be aware, the Prophet’s approach ﷺ is the best example in educating children. Be a father who wants to hear, a mother who can be trusted by his children. If the child dares to say, “I’m tempted to commit adultery,” Don’t be angry – be grateful because the child opens his heart. That’s the opportunity to guide before it’s too late.

Invite the child to dialogue, give a touching advice, and don’t forget to pray sincerely to their hearts. Only with guidance like this, we can hope that our generation will survive in purity, in the midst of slander storms that never stop. May Allah take care of ourselves and our families from the slander of lust that plunged. Amen.

Wallahu a’lam.

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Writer: Fauzan Hidayat

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