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The following is the behavior of men that make him slip, harm, both in the world and the hereafter.

1. Do not protect the family from hellfire

This is a big task and a tough task for men, or husband. Not just protecting the family from the heat of the world but from the heat of the afterlife.

Allah Ta’ala says:

Hey, who are the people who have been for you and your people, and you are a fire …

“O you who believe, take care of yourself and your family from the fire of hell ….” (QS. At-Tahrim: 6)

How to care for him?

Among the scholars ‘explanations are Ali bin Abi Talib Radhiallahu’ Anhu said how to keep them from the fire of hell:

They teach them and teach them …

Teach them to be polite and teach them knowledge. (Ibn Kathir Interpretation, 8/167)

Teach courtesy to Allah Ta’ala with monotheism and true worship, courtesy to the Prophet by believing and following all his teachings, courtesy to parents with respect, love, and obeying them well, and other courtesy.

Teach knowledge about the science of fardhu ‘ain for them as the hereafter. Equipped with Sunnah Science. If he cannot study alone, he at least gives his children and his wife to access to learning.

Don’t be busy with work to forget this noble task ..

Don’t be busy with hobbies; fishing, bicycle goes, touring, raising birds, hiking, … forgetting this big task …

We see many children who are fatherless (losing the figure of the father), children are closer to gadgets, mabar, etc. Never saw his father prayed to the mosque, reading the Koran, even praying at home did not.

Once at home, Dad is also busy with his hobby or busy with his cellphone or just lying down. Children do not pray, children do not cover genitalia, his wife is busy with Instagram and dancing in Tiktok … he just ignored.

Know, all of this will have a bill in the hereafter:

And the man was a shepherd in his family and he was responsible for his parish

A man is a leader in his family and he will be asked for responsibility for his leadership. (HR. Bukhari)

Other Hadiths:

For the authority of Abdullah bin Amr, he said, God’s messenger, may the prayer and peace of God be on it

From Abdullah bin ‘Amr, he said, the messenger of God (may be peace with him) said, “It is enough that someone is said to be sinful if he throws away the person he is responsible.” (Clock Abu David no. 1692, Hasan)

Wallahul Musta

Continued …

✍️Farid Numan Hasan

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